No one was saying that, how in the world did you read that into what we were posting? We were simply seeing what everyone was out there doing as far as download times for their pages. It wasn't meant to be "darn, his loads in 5 seconds, I need to beat that."
Do not read into what the goal of this post was, he is trying to help everyone here to take a look at their websites, do not be ignorant. Web pages need to download within a reasonable time, in my opinion no more than 7 to 8 seconds otherwise people are going to turn around.
And it sometimes is not a very simple thing, especially when you are dealing with many graphics, large amounts of client-side code, etc.
But to reitterate, this wasn't a dispute between 4 and 5 second web pages, merely a "what is everyone elses web pages like?"
Go find another post to pick apart...
-J