One other caution to the OP - Most mortgages have clauses that state that payments are apportioned out as follows: Late fees, first, then interest then principal. Even one late payment can really mess you up financially. Because they will take your next payment, apply the late fee, then the interest charge for the late payment and there will not be enough to make the full principal payment. If your mortgage also escrows taxes and insurance, then you will still be considered to be late. And a new late fee will be charged since you didn't make a full payment (at least in their eyes).

Something as small as one missed payment can quickly turn into three months late which will immediately trigger a default situation.

I can understand your desire for privacy but your should request a complete ledger sheet for your payments dating back to the first missed payment. Then you'll know exactly where you stand in respect to your mortgage balance.