Instead of telling the bank to "stuff it", you should tell the seller's agent to continue to negotiate with BofA to see if they can get it resolved.
I am hearing that BofA will approve the short sales, however they will charge off the loss as recoverable debt on every deal. I am not sure why sellers would sign this either. Unless the seller signs the approval with the conditions and then just avoids BofA altogether after the sale.
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Len McGuirk
Prudential Americana Group
Direct: (702) 203-6688
Las Vegas Real Estate