@Super - re: qualifying the customer properly - **absolutely**!
@Perky - in my area (which is all I can speak to) 90% of the sellers are unrealistic in their pricing - even if you show them the numbers and explain the market to them and ask them if they've seen the news (me being facetious, of course - but you get the point). They want what they want. I turn down 9 out of 10 sellers in this market because they won't let me help them (and there are plenty of other agents out there who will list it for whatever they'd like and say "that sounds, GREAT! HOORAY! Look at my overpriced listing and my soon-to-be disappointed seller...).
I wouldn't recommend jumping for a buyer (or anyone, for that matter) - I pre-qual them. Are they working with a lender? do they have a pre-approval or proof of funds? This comes first before we start working in earnest. I've learned my lessons. I had a guy snap his fingers at me once and say "I'll get approved like THAT!"...he never bought anything...I pretty much knew he wouldn't as soon as he balked at the idea of getting (gasp!) pre-approved for a loan.
As a general rule, I find 90% of buyers right now are happy to do it "the right way" compared to only 10% of sellers. So...based on that, I tend to put the vast majority of my efforts into working with buyers rather than with sellers. A seller costs you money every month - serious buyer's cost me money for a couple of days, maybe a week at most...and if they're willing to take the time to get me a pre-approval, proof of funds, or some other commitment, chances are they're serious about buying (i.e. I recoup my investment). Don't get me wrong, I'll take a realistic seller any day of the week and I'll rock it like nobody's business (my last listing sold in 4 days with 4 offers in on it) - but for the most part, sellers are money pits in this market and you won't recoup your investment.
I agree with you 100% that someone has to have the listings in order for the buyers to buy something. I just find that I'd rather let all the other agents waste their time/money on unrealistic sellers and I'll just cherry pick the homes that I show my buyers from the available inventory.
@Greene - re: referrals instead of buyers...what about taking those 10 referrals that brought you $10,500 and handling them all yourself and making $42,000 with a few more hours put in per buyer... - sorry, I like my way bettah
