take solace in the fact that you aren't the only one... we have had several offers sent and people drop off 7/11 MONEY ORDERS for earnest $ deposit. are you kidding me? we explained to the buyers agt that was a red flag from day one and sure enough, borrower didnt qualify (despite providing a DU cert with the offer).
so, we make it very clear to the "REALTARDS" out there... NO MONEY ORDERS, STAMPS, FOOD STAMPS, COUPONS, etc will be accepted for deposit. :)
and no... putting 3% down on an FHA deal doesn't qualify as a "solid borrower" any way you spin it.
it's amazing, just when i thought i have seen it all...