Wannabe - we understand your questions so I'll jump in here to help you out.
1. Consider changing wannabe - keep it if you desire it - just a consideration.
2. Read the rules (sticky threads) first three threads that stay at the top here. Don't cheat - read them all.
3. When you read them you'll then know to read the threads first, do searches as necessary, contribute and then you'll also see what NOT to do.
No hard feelings - there is a wealth of information here for you - all everyone asks you to do is read it for yourself.
See you about Christmas - You'll certainly know so much more by then you'll laugh at your first post.
Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

Good Reading!