Agents Online Real Estate Forums, Discussion, Realtors Marketing Tips

Follow AgentsOnline on Twitter

Click Here to display our logo on your site and link to us!
AgentsOnline Real Estate Discussion Forums Logo

Good Ideas
Nusetlock.com




REO Prep Foreclosure Listings




BPO REO Secret System




How To Advertise Here

More Good Ideas!
real estate newsletters


Real Estate Websites for Realtors




Build your brand on a Real Estate Site





Facebook
Page 3 of 4 < 1 2 3 4 >
Topic Options
Rate This Topic
#254238 - 10/09/08 02:35 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: estatereal]
KevCrawford Offline
Member

Registered: 12/19/05
Posts: 142
Loc: San Antonio
I see two sides to the coin. I don't evangelize my Christianity because I believe that my character is my witness and I've had plenty of people ask me about my religious views. At the same point, the way I operate is to become friendly with my clients. When we're driving around together or viewing houses, we are always involved in conversation not only about the homes, but about life in general. They know about my family. I know about theirs. Often times I'll talk about someone I met in Church or a Ministry I'm involved in. Not to push religion, but because we talk to each other about our lives, and being a strong Christian is a very big part of my life.

My clients feel comfortable talking to me and have never once taken offense to me talking about my faith. I've worked with Muslims, athiests, etc. and have never gotten into religious battle. One of my best clients doesn't believe in God. She loves the time we spend together looking at property because it's a laid back environment and we talk about everything. She's an incredible source of referrals for me.

It shouldn't be taboo to talk about religion, politics, etc. If it's part of your life and it comes up in day to day conversation, no big deal. People shouldn't hide who they are just for the sake of getting a deal. Again, I don't lock the doors and thump people over the head with a Bible. But I don't hide anything or avoid subjects like that.

If you're true to yourself, people respect that and usually don't get offended.
_________________________
Kevin Crawford
Platinum Top 50 Finalist

San Antonio and Boerne's Ultra-Luxury Specialist



www.CrawfordLuxury.com

Top
#254239 - 10/09/08 02:47 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: estatereal]
barb43 Online   content
Veteran Member

Registered: 07/31/08
Posts: 944
Loc: SW Okla
Originally Posted By: estatereal
barb3^^^^^^^^^who are you going to vote for;-)?


Hahahaha! Heh, estate, if I had a fish, I'd slap you with it!

I'll let you know if my candidate wins, 'k?
_________________________
Remodeling houses & helping tenants get ahead in life since 1983. Licensed Realtor since 2005. Addicted to REOs, BPOs, and working to expand.

LIMITATIONS: Until You Spread Your Wings, You'll Have No Idea How Far You Can Walk. - despair.com

Top
#254242 - 10/09/08 03:03 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: estatereal]
REODayton Offline
Major Contributor

Registered: 07/27/06
Posts: 3699
Loc: Dayton Ohio
"Please allow me to introduce myself
Im a man of wealth and taste
Ive been around for a long, long year
Stole many a mans soul and faith
And I was round when jesus christ
Had his moment of doubt and pain
Made damn sure that pilate
Washed his hands and sealed his fate
Pleased to meet you
Hope you guess my name
But whats puzzling you
Is the nature of my game"

I Sell Real Estate
and get my Client the best price
I negotiate and anticipate
all on your behalf..................

Top
#254256 - 10/09/08 04:25 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: REODayton]
Cygnus Offline
Member

Registered: 08/12/05
Posts: 113
Loc: Tucson, AZ
When I started in real estate I was told there are 3 things you do not discuss with clients:

1) Religion
2) Politics
3) Sex

There are other hot button issues as well which I always steer clear from. I am like TexasAgent and handle these things the same way.
_________________________
**** I am not a lawyer and I am not giving legal advice ****


Top
#254278 - 10/09/08 05:58 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: estatereal]
colemacj Offline
Member

Registered: 09/29/07
Posts: 96
Loc: CA
Since my faith has become part of my vocabulary, I think it does come up in one way or another with my clients. None have been deterred and a couple have invited me to thier church.

Top
#254287 - 10/09/08 07:29 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: Cygnus]
Texas Agent Offline
Member

Registered: 07/14/08
Posts: 357
Loc: Dallas, Fort Worth - TX
Originally Posted By: Cygnus
When I started in real estate I was told there are 3 things you do not discuss with clients:

1) Religion
2) Politics
3) Sex

There are other hot button issues as well which I always steer clear from. I am like TexasAgent and handle these things the same way.


There are those rare occasions, however, when discussing religion or politics or sex with a client might lead to something productive, or even enjoyable.

dancingguy

Top
#254304 - 10/09/08 08:34 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: barb43]
estatereal Offline
Major Contributor

Registered: 01/27/07
Posts: 2779
Loc: LAND OF THE FREE!
Originally Posted By: barb43
Originally Posted By: estatereal
barb3^^^^^^^^^who are you going to vote for;-)?


Hahahaha! Heh, estate, if I had a fish, I'd slap you with it!

I'll let you know if my candidate wins, 'k?


whistlehad to try! I will await your answer smirk

Top
#254415 - 10/10/08 01:55 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: estatereal]
KyleMcKinney Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 10/10/08
Posts: 4
Loc: Austin, TX
Has anyone ever had this happen from the other side of the fence? I showed some clients a condo and they loved it, but then they met the landlord for their "dog interview" for which I was not present. Apparently he thought their dog was evil or some nonsense and made them pray with him and his wife that it would behave in the condo. They both grew up in Christian homes but were uncomfortable enough to walk away from their perfect condo. I can't say I blame them but what would you have done in this situation?

Top
#254425 - 10/10/08 02:47 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: KyleMcKinney]
barb43 Online   content
Veteran Member

Registered: 07/31/08
Posts: 944
Loc: SW Okla
I'd have probably done nothing, but inside I would have daydreamed about going back to the landlord and giving him a piece of my mind about how I'd never bring anyone to look at any property he owned again! Well, and I would have prayed for the guy to be given some business sense. *rolls eyes*
_________________________
Remodeling houses & helping tenants get ahead in life since 1983. Licensed Realtor since 2005. Addicted to REOs, BPOs, and working to expand.

LIMITATIONS: Until You Spread Your Wings, You'll Have No Idea How Far You Can Walk. - despair.com

Top
#254476 - 10/10/08 09:54 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: MaxReferrals]
Viktor Offline
Veteran Member

Registered: 09/23/07
Posts: 874
Loc: Dallas, TX
I would not suggest talking about personal thing like religion and politics, it could turn a lot of people off....

Just mine opinion.
_________________________
Viktor Taushanov
William Davis Realty
Dallas, TX
http://homesforsaleindfw.com
http://northdallas.blogspot.com
Viktor.RealtyBG@gmail.com
http://www.linkedin.com/in/viktortaushanov


I love referrals!

Top
#254477 - 10/10/08 09:58 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: Texas Agent]
Viktor Offline
Veteran Member

Registered: 09/23/07
Posts: 874
Loc: Dallas, TX
Originally Posted By: Texas Agent
Originally Posted By: Cygnus
When I started in real estate I was told there are 3 things you do not discuss with clients:

1) Religion
2) Politics
3) Sex

There are other hot button issues as well which I always steer clear from. I am like TexasAgent and handle these things the same way.


I like that, sometimes we could sacrifice business if it is worthy.
There are those rare occasions, however, when discussing religion or politics or sex with a client might lead to something productive, or even enjoyable.

dancingguy
_________________________
Viktor Taushanov
William Davis Realty
Dallas, TX
http://homesforsaleindfw.com
http://northdallas.blogspot.com
Viktor.RealtyBG@gmail.com
http://www.linkedin.com/in/viktortaushanov


I love referrals!

Top
#254542 - 10/11/08 01:52 PM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: Vermont]
SBbkr Offline
Member

Registered: 08/27/08
Posts: 282
Loc: California
You know... its a bummer when everyone gets all wrapped up in mincing words... I say if Jesus is your Lord and Savior... let it be known... not to try and work the system... but to take every chance the Lord gives you to speak truth and be a light. Religion... its not about religion... its about a relationship with the one and only true God. Ok... I know some of you are going to get all worked up by this statement... well take it up with God. He said it... and I'm just claiming His truths. Yep you guessed correctly... I'm a Christian and love my King. The Lord has blessed my business over and over again... You know when you need to speak up... just let the spirit lead! How you like that apple!

Top
#254636 - 10/12/08 09:43 AM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: SBbkr]
Illinois Agent Offline
Veteran Member

Registered: 01/29/08
Posts: 582
Loc: Illinois
Former broker owners I worked for were "christians" They loved to talk the talk but when it came down to money they screwed over many agents including myself. They did love to promote it around the offices, even setting up a "seminar" by one of the agents to tell everyone the secret to her marketing success. The meeting turned into her saying her business was down because she did not devote enough time to christ, and her business picked up after she added a scripture to all her mailings. My opinion, keep your God at home, it has nothing to do with business.

Top
#254652 - 10/12/08 11:10 AM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: Illinois Agent]
Vermont Offline
Major Contributor

Registered: 04/12/08
Posts: 4725
Loc: Vermont's North-East Kingdom
Originally Posted By: Illinois Agent
"Former broker owners I worked for were "christians" They loved to talk the talk but when it came down to money they screwed over many agents including myself . . . ."


Illinois, your "People" sound zackley like my Bible Totin' "People" discussed here back in August at:

http://www.agentsonline.net/forums/ubbthreads.php/topics/244804/Re_annoying_practice.html#Post244804

Every telephone call or email ended with that sappy and disingenuous "May GOD Bless YOU".

After I left, and Spirits got weak, one of them had to pay to get an Exorcism performed on the Other cuz Satan had somehow found a way to gain entry into the Brokerage !
_________________________
Dale C. Hittle of GOLDEN RULE PROPERTIES in Glover, Vermont
Where We're Always Striving To Put Together "THE FAIR DEAL"

Top
#254655 - 10/12/08 11:56 AM Re: Saying Your a Christian When Talking to Prospects/Clients [Re: KyleMcKinney]
REODayton Offline
Major Contributor

Registered: 07/27/06
Posts: 3699
Loc: Dayton Ohio
Originally Posted By: KyleMcKinney
Has anyone ever had this happen from the other side of the fence? I showed some clients a condo and they loved it, but then they met the landlord for their "dog interview" for which I was not present. Apparently he thought their dog was evil or some nonsense and made them pray with him and his wife that it would behave in the condo. They both grew up in Christian homes but were uncomfortable enough to walk away from their perfect condo. I can't say I blame them but what would you have done in this situation?


Sort of but not in Real Estate. This was when cell phones were a luxurary item and was the size of a brick.

I had a co-worker who needed a person for his Churches Volley Ball game. Casual game, they went for beers afterwards, free, it was a social gathering. They prayed before the games began abd prayed after every game. A little odd to me, but hey, thats what they do, I respected their rules.

Then one night we were playing and one of the players jumped up and landed very wrong. I hope I never hear the sound of a leg snapping in half again! It was very obvious that this guy was hurt and he needed 911. It took all I had not to pass out (I'm not the guy you want when a medical emergency occurs).

The first responce from these people were to grab hands, surround the injured victim and pray very loudly. Sure pray for the guy after the ambulance took him away, but while he was in need of help???? I never played with them again.

Top
Page 3 of 4 < 1 2 3 4 >






Moderator:  Agent 007, RaquelMangual 
Google Custom Forum Search

This Google Custom search may do a better job of searching the forums for some keywords than the old forum search does. The results do not include threads from the Asset Managers Forum however. To search that forum you will need to be actually in the Asset Managers Forum and you will need to use the old forum search below.
Search

Good Ideas!
real estate newsletters




How To Advertise Here

Sponsors

Newest Members
toorgeman123, D best Realtor, Nilufar Yeasmin, realtor525, relator52512
21437 Registered Users
Who's Online
8 registered (bluebird, 2 state broker, c302, MassREOReal2r, LuvDuv, 1 invisible), 170 Guests and 2 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Shout Box

Top Posters (30 Days)
Vermont 80
KingofBPOs 53
Brit16 51
DueDiligence 44
Bigtoe 36
johnnyloans 34
Averis 34
super realtor 33
Kjmendy 33
SoldWithVideo 32
shurdul 31
RIzwan 29
Doin' bpose 27
75Corvette 26
Scintillion 25
(Views)Popular Topics
No new orders today 4750957
I MAKE 100 COLD CALLS EVERY DAY & LOVE IT! 2700365
Stupid MLS comments. 958051
EML 458010
Evalonline 299689
What do you know about Froy Candelario, top agent in USA 290635
Land America 285007
New HUD Listing Brokers---Any Update? 269132
Mainstreet 261768
Pay it Forward - BPO/REO Tips & Tricks I & II 239150
Stupid QC comments and BPO requirements. 229957
Is there religious content in Buffini class? 225564
FARVV 177251
REOTRANS 160684
USRES / RES.NET 147658
Let's talk about our cars 147314
asset val seminar in colorado 144050
AVM Bpos 139642
FARVV 126764
PAS 118332
Featured Member
Registered: 06/22/07
Posts: 93

How To Advertise Here


This site presented by RNC Internet Services