hey condo- I read all of your posts. My advice would be to go to a couple of lenders. I don't know about New Jersey, but in GA, you can do a FHA or even conventional loan in your situation.
Talk to friends or relatives. See who has had good experiences with their mortgage companies. Go to local companies that are referred by these friends/relatives. Talk to a few of them so you can compare deals and get the best deal for you.
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Greg Sargent
Licensed Georgia Real Estate Broker.