So a referral only benefits the other agent in my situation. I do all the work, and they get a share of my paycheck.
Wow, that's quite a 'tude. It ONLY benefits the other agent? What kind of referral fee are we talking about here? How can it ONLY benefit the other agent??!
#1, you have someone sending you business
#2, you now have a new customer who can possibly refer you more business
If they are such a PIA customer, then YOU should have sent them somewhere else when they resurfaced. Especially if you think that the deal "only" benefits the other realtor anyway.
Sheesh!
I have heard a lot of things lately but I've never heard an agent say they were too busy for more referrals.