Siberian Winter,
I am attempting to provide perspective.
Of note, I formerly lived in the Washington, D.C. suburbs. Cost of living was very high.
I know it is easy to dismiss my comments because I'm in Idaho. Many concieve of my state as something like the Alaskan wilderness, filled with ill-educated folks in poorly-constructed cabins.
Yet, I'm in a community with 9,000 scientists and engineers (we have the nation's leading high tech lab for energy research), lots of locally-grown high tech companies and we were named one of the top 10 small communities in the nation by Money magazine this year. And, Idaho was just named as the #1 state for housing appreciation the past year.
Yes, we have modest cost of living. The average home is about $150,000 (3 bedrooms 2 baths 2 car garage and about 2400 square feet). Utilities are cheap. And, both food and medical care are modest.
But, wages are proportionally lower. And, real estate commissions, because of the relatively low average property price, are also rather low by national standards. Every agent I know undergoes financial pressure when starting out.
And, we face, like virtually every other market, stiff competition for the real estate business. Based on Westchester County's population and your count of active agents, it looks like about .8% of the population are in real estate. In my area, the equivalent number is .7% --- very close.
Over the past couple years, I was in a course with brokers all over the country. As part of that program, I visited all kinds and sizes of brokerages in Maine, Massachusetts, Tennessee, Florida, California, Nevada, Arizona, Washington, and Utah. I spoke with brokers, staff and agents.
I was struck by the fact that regardless of the area, the challenges are almost identical. And, the same things seem to work regardless of where you are.
You had noted that you had had some success with open houses. What about approaching other agents about doing open houses at times they are not (ie. if the listing agent is doing a Sunday one, maybe you could do a Saturday session). Ask attendees for name, address, phone number and e-mail and promise to provide them a list of the new listings in the neighborhood.
Then, go into your mls system and set each up to have listings "auto-sent" to those folks.
Follow-up with postcards to this same audience each month. Provide data on the area (number of homes listed that month, number sold, average sales price, and sales price/list price ratio).
Check the mls religiously. If something special comes up, call each of these folks and tell them about. And, offer to show them.
Do an open house once a week and engage in this kind of follow-up with every lead. I've seen agents build an entire business off of this kind of program. The key is to consistently provide relevant help --- often times for 6 months or a year.
Many open house attendees are future buyers or sellers. This kind of program bonds them to you and can really work.
Best of luck!