Originally posted by scottyb:
My agent and the sellers agent agreed that the husband would sign upon his return.
Principals make decisions, not agents. Even if the husband had accepted and signed your offer (which was not the case), the seller's agent could continue to show the property for back-up offers to yours. But since there wasn't an enforceable contract to purchase in place, the seller's agent did not do anything illegal. If you were intentionally misled and lied to, then that is unethical. But if another buyer contacted the seller's agent on their own and asked to see the property, and asked to make an offer which both sellers signed, then that could be completely ethical, even though your offer lost out.
I am surprised that upon getting the higher offer, the seller's agent did not at least contact your agent to see if you would increase your offer. Sellers usually love multiple offer situations. But they are not obligated to negotiate with everyone, they can pick and choose.
Tough turn of events for you, but there is another home out there waiting for you.